So, Whose Day Is It Really?

“Good morning, Lord! This is Your day. I am your child: show me Your way.” Around twenty-five years ago a tiny older lady who was part of our small group shared this prayer as her way of dedicating herself to God each day before she even got out of bed. How quaint. It...

From Judgment to Respect

It seems whenever I’m around others who are different from me, I tend to jump into comparison mode. Then, if I’m not careful, I judge others’ personality styles and motivators to be inferior. What a problem this has sometimes been in our marriage! When our three...
Qualities of a Good Spouse

Qualities of a Good Spouse

Who knew that wearing red nail polish was a demerit against me as a wife?  Or that Rod’s leaving his shoes in the living room counts against him as a husband? Bad news is: we didn’t do very well on the marriage scale I checked out today. Good news is: this scale was...